Your daughter is a physician with a growing practice. Your son is an attorney on the path to partnership. Your youngest built a company that now employs 14 people. You are proud of all of them. You trust their judgment, and you want their inheritance to strengthen the lives they have worked hard to build. When I discuss an inheritance trust for adult children with parents like you, I do not begin by asking whether the children are responsible. I begin by asking what they have

You bought the policy when your first child was born. You chose an amount that felt enormous, named your spouse, added the premium to autopay, and felt the relief of knowing your family would have money if you died. You acted to protect your family. A life insurance beneficiary review respects that decision while asking whether the policy still fits the life you built afterward. Now it is 10 years later. Your income has changed. The mortgage is larger. You have two children,

You did the work. You saved for retirement, signed a trust, and named beneficiaries because you wanted the people you love to be protected. That matters. I mean it. Now you're sitting across from me with the plan you created years ago. Your IRA has become one of your largest assets, and you believe it will pass to your children with the protection you intended. Then I ask to see the beneficiary form. The trust is named. You made that choice to create security, not a tax probl

Maybe Make-A-Will Month finally moved it to the top of your list. Maybe you've been meaning to get this done for years and this was the month it finally happened. Either way, you sat down, signed the documents, and walked out with something most families never get around to. That matters. I mean it. But here's what I tell every client who comes to me after making a will somewhere else: most families think the job is done. They sign the documents, file them away, and assume th

When I heard about Tenisha Warner's lawsuit, my first thought wasn't about the celebrity angle. It was: I've seen this before. Not the exact same story, but the same estate planning gap. A family where the right intentions were there. Where conversations happened. Where commitments were put in writing. And where the complaint alleges that the specific obligations were never carried through. Malcolm-Jamal Warner, best known for playing Theo Huxtable on The Cosby Show, died in

A family called me after losing their mother. She had a will, properly signed and perfectly valid. But it didn't tell anyone who had legal authority to be with the children in the first 72 hours, who could pay the mortgage while the accounts were frozen in probate, or how she actually wanted her kids raised. She had done some estate planning. She just hadn't done enough. August is Make-A-Will Month, and the urgency is real. Trust & Will's 2026 Estate Planning Report, a nation

There's a phrase most of us remember from decades past: "Friends don't let friends drive drunk." It was simple, direct, and it worked, because it reframed a difficult conversation as an act of friendship, not judgment. The same logic applies to estate planning. For most of us, our friends are among the most important people in our lives. For some, they're chosen family: the people who show up, who know everything, who would be on the other end of that phone call if something

If your baby was born on or after January 1, 2025, the federal government has set aside $1,000 for your child. The account is available now. Contributions opened on July 4, 2026. And most families have not yet taken the step to claim it. The account is called a Trump Account. It was created by the One Big Beautiful Bill Act, signed into law in 2025, and it is one of the most significant new financial tools for young families in years. A seed investment that grows tax-advantag

You've brought it up before. Maybe it came up after watching a friend go through something hard, a probate process that dragged on for years, or a family left scrambling without the right documents in place. Maybe a health scare prompted the conversation, or a birthday that snuck up faster than expected. Whatever brought it to mind, you've tried to talk to your spouse about getting a plan in place. And it went nowhere. Not because they were openly against it. Maybe they chang

The call came four days after her husband died. A credit card company. Forty-one thousand dollars on his account. The representative told her she was responsible for the balance and asked when she could begin making payments. She was grieving, overwhelmed, and certain she had no choice. She started writing checks. She called me six weeks later, after she had made three payments on accounts that were held in her husband’s name alone and signed a repayment agreement for a

A client forwarded me a CNBC article last week with a note: "Does this affect our trust?" It was a reasonable question. The article described a provision buried in the One Big Beautiful Bill that tax lawyers and accountants are calling a double taxation problem for trusts. They found it in a footnote of a Congressional tax guide released after the law was signed. The answer to her question: it might. Here is what we know right now. What the Law Was Supposed to Do When the O

She found the notebook in the top drawer of her mother's desk. Six pages. Every account. Every password. Username, password, recovery question. Her mother had been organized her whole life, and the notebook proved it. Then she tried to log in. The bank account asked for a six-digit code sent to her mother's phone. The phone was locked with a fingerprint. The email linked to her financial accounts had been set up decades ago through a provider that had since shut down. The rec

If you are a divorced father, you already know something that most married fathers don't: showing up for your kids takes more deliberate effort than it looks like from the outside. You have worked on the relationship you have with them. You know which weeks are yours and how to make them count. You have figured out the handoffs, the schedules, and the way to stay present even when circumstances make it complicated. What I find almost universally, when a divorced father wa

If you are a stepfather, you know the difference between the legal definition of father and the real one. The real one shows up. He learns the allergies, the fears, and the names of the friends. He drives to the practices and sits through the recitals and knows which child needs quiet when they're upset and which one needs noise. He considers these children his family, and they consider him theirs. The legal definition is something else entirely. Under the law, a stepparent h

There are two kinds of fathers. The first kind coaches the games, makes it to the school plays, stays up late helping with the projects, and loves his family in every visible way. He thinks about what would happen if something happened to him: maybe during a long drive home, maybe after a close call, maybe in a quiet moment watching his kids sleep. He thinks about it and then moves on, because the day-to-day of being a father takes up almost everything he has. Father's Day

I work with parents on this exact question all the time, and especially this time of year, sitting right between Mother's Day and Father's Day, the love you have for your children tends to be at the forefront of your mind. But there's a question I find most parents haven't actually answered yet, even the ones who think they have. When I sit down with parents, I find most have thought about who would take care of their children if something happened to them, maybe during a q

She had been filing taxes the same way for thirty years. Married filing jointly. Two incomes, two Social Security checks, one tax return. When her husband died, she assumed very little about her finances would change. She still lived in the same house. She still had the same savings. Her income was lower, yes, but the bills were mostly the same. Then her first tax return came due as a single filer, and everything changed. Her accountant had to explain something she had ne

This happens far more than it should. You signed a Power of Attorney (POA), named someone you trust, and filed it away with your important documents. You felt the quiet relief of having that handled. But here's what most families don't discover until they're already in a crisis: a perfectly valid POA can be rejected by your bank, and there may be very little your family can do about it in the moment. What that means is that they would have to go to court to get access to your

If something happened to you tomorrow, would the people you love know what to do? Would they have the legal authority to do it? Most people think they have a plan, or at least that they will. What they rarely picture is what happens in the days and weeks before anyone can act: while the courts sort it out, while the family waits, while everything that was carefully built sits in limbo. Tony Hsieh spent his career building things that worked. He turned a struggling online shoe

You fall in love later in life. You marry. You start over. Then your spouse dies suddenly. Before you have time to grieve, the family starts fighting, the locks get changed, the mail stops arriving, and the basic stability of your life begins to slip away. Without the right legal planning, that kind of loss can trigger a chain reaction that is brutally hard to stop. That is one of the clearest estate planning lessons in the reported story of Marie-Thérèse Ross-Mahé, an 86-yea